Mentorship is like a Conductor

“Someone is there to guide me in the right direction... not to be on the end goal, but the first few steps which are the hardest.”

One of my mentees from Veterati in 2023 recently reached out to thank me for the advice I gave him as he transitioned from the US Navy back to civilian life.

What resonated with him was the idea that: “Someone is there to guide me in the right direction... not to be on the end goal, but the first few steps which are the hardest.”

This led me to think about how mentors are like music conductors who guide the orchestra or ensemble during a performance. While the music sheets are provided to the musicians, someone must ensure that the group plays in harmony. Then gradually, let them play with precision.

In any industry, mentorship is more about being present to someone rather than about knowing all the answers.

Of course, imparting something to them.
Listen when someone feels stuck.
Sharing your story will help them feel less alone.

I am very grateful to those who have supported me along the way, and I have made a conscious effort to do the same for others over the past few years, maybe as a way of giving back.

Everyone doesn't have to figure it out alone. Through support, guidance, and connection, we strive.

To all the mentors out there: Thank you!
To the mentees: Never give up!
And for those who are in between: You're doing better than you realize.

Let's continue to encourage one another.